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Protecting the Rights Of Military children In Special Education

through educating and advising the legislative agendas of military service organizations, Department of Defense and public officials.

All children receiving special education are entitled to a free appropriate public education.

The data shows there are systemic problems with special education for military families across the US and the trend is many school systems are not providing the required standards of education.

So, we created the P.R.O.M.I.S.E. Act.

Our Team

Michelle Norman

Founder & Executive Director

Michelle Norman, the 2020 Heroes at Home Military Spouse of the Year – Hampton Roads and the 2019 AFI Navy Spouse of the Year, is a Navy spouse of 25 years and mother of a 17-year-old daughter with cerebral palsy and multiple other disabilities.  After years of successfully advocating and winning multiple legal cases to ensure her daughter receives the minimum education required by law, she was contacted by multiple military families across the country dealing with similar problems in public schools.  Realizing that so many children will benefit from her dedicated efforts, the Virginia Beach resident has become a passionate advocate for military children with special needs and their families.  Norman and three military spouses founded Partners in PROMISE, a grassroots advocacy organization focused on educating, advising and advocating for exceptional military families and their education.

Jennifer Barnhill

Chief Operating Officer

Jennifer Barnhill is a freelance writer with a focus on military family advocacy, Navy spouse and mother of three. 

Her reporting has been featured in Military.com, We Are the Mighty, Military Spouse Magazine, Military Families Magazine, TheMilitaryWallet.com and The War Horse.  She is the Editorial Content Manager for TheMilitaryWallet.com and serves on the National Military Spouse Network Storm the Hill 2020 Steering Committee. She is currently studying at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill in pursuit of her Master of Public Administration, with a concentration in nonprofit management.

Her passion for the military family community brought her to Partners in PROMISE in March 2020. And she brings that passion to all she does to help the EFMP community.

Grace Kim, esq.

Founder & Special Education Law Expert

Grace is the principal attorney of The Law Office of Grace E. Kim, PC. She is also an Air Force spouse and parent of a child with Autism, ADHD, Specific Learning Disability, PHPV, and other neurological and physical disorders.  Grace has experienced firsthand the struggles faced by military families of children with special needs and is able to help others through their challenges. She practices special education law in the Commonwealth of Virginia and is honored to represent many military families. She lives in Fairfax County, VA with her husband Joshua, and their children Josiah and Karis.

Crystal Mahany

Special Education Legal Analyst

Crystal works as a Legal Analyst in Special Education Law.  A proud wife to an Army Aviator, Crystal has served the military community in many capacities and is committed to serve until and beyond her soldier’s retirement.  She strongly believes in serving military families and the surrounding community at each duty station.

In 2014, her oldest son was diagnosed with Childhood Apraxia of Speech and Autism.  Two years later, her youngest son was diagnosed with the same speech disorder.  These diagnoses thrust her family into the Special Needs and Special Education community.

Driven by her passion to help, Crystal went back to school and focused her research on Disability Rights and Special Education Law.  She is deeply committed to continuous service to Special Education families.

Tricia Ross

Social Media Manager

A proud military wife of 19 years, Tricia was named the 2012 Armed Forces Insurance Navy Spouse of the Year for her advocacy efforts in support of military children. As a former educator, she is passionate about connecting families to resources that alleviate the hardships associated with frequent moves throughout a military career. 

Prior to volunteering with Partners in PROMISE, Tricia gained more than five years of experience working with national nonprofits in volunteer and program management. She has also held leadership roles with various organizations including the PTA, school advisory committees, and other community organizations. Tricia has been a featured writer for Military Families Magazine, GI Jobs, and Military Spouse Magazine. 

She earned a Bachelor of Science in Behavioral Science from Wilmington University and a Master of Science in Human Services from Capella University. Tricia resides near Naval Trauma Training Center at USC, Los Angeles, California with her husband and four children.

Carla Wyrsch

EFMP Expert & Guest Blogger

Carla Wyrsch is a Marine Corps’ spouse and mother of two. She has devoted her career to educating and advocating for children with disABILITIES. Her experience spans a variety of settings, including residential treatment facilities, military bases, public schools, and the Cleveland Clinic Children’s Learner School for Autism. In addition to her work with children, she enjoys providing coaching sessions to both professionals and parents in the areas of behavior modification and other best practices.  

Our Founders

Shannon DeBlock


Shannon DeBlock is a proud Navy spouse for the past 16 years and a mom to 2 boys. Her youngest son was diagnosed with autism at 16 months old. His educational needs have been difficult to meet across duty stations partially due to the severity of his disability and the lack of support and accountability from the public education entities responsible for educating him.

Shannon teamed up with 3 other military spouses in 2019 after a 2- year legal battle with Poway Unified School District in San Diego, CA where the district sued her 11-year-old son to remove educational supports that he had been receiving for the previous 5 years at a prior duty station. She co-founded the non-profit, Partners in Promise, and subsequently the PROMISE ACT in an effort to support fellow military families with educational challenges for their special needs children and bring change to lawmakers.

Kaci Mccarley


Kaci McCarley is an active duty Army spouse and mother of a 14 year old son with Down syndrome. After gaining her undergraduate degree in special education and working as a teacher for several years, she joined Goodwill of the Olympics and Rainier Region as Director of Disability Services where she had opportunity to support military students transitioning from K-12 education into adult services.

She became an advocate for students with disabilities after seeing the tremendous stress military families endure during times of transition, and the lost instruction that negatively impacts academic achievement and development. Kaci currently works for the Military Child Education Coalition who champions quality, inclusive education opportunities for all military-connected children.


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